PETE THE PLANNER: Steer clear of sharing details of your finances with friends

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4 thoughts on “PETE THE PLANNER: Steer clear of sharing details of your finances with friends

  1. Our societal taboos against discussing salary have a serious negative effect: perpetuating discrimination.

    As for other financial discussions, there’s a time and a place. While it’s a potential minefield, there’s a benefit that comes from authenticity, but there’s an art to knowing if, how, and when.

    1. Well said. Our society needs to be more open about money. Not everyone had a great mentor that filled them in on the small details of money. By sharing with one another we can help each other.

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